Oh HonestLeigh!!

One of Us May Not Live Through It!

2011-05-03T19:03:00.000-07:00

My dear husband and I have been married for almost 17 years. It's a typical marriage...ups, downs, kids, stress, happiness, good times and bad. No big complaints thus far.

However, we are in the process of moving, and I'm on the verge of killing him. We have moved 3 times before, and I did most of the packing, etc. It was a pain in the a$$, but I had a method, and it got done. This move is proving to be a bit different-he's helping. (Not really)

Our new home is ready to move in, but I haven't had the time to clean it yet. He keeps telling me the carpets were just cleaned, and yesiknowthat, but I am not moving in to someone elses dirt! He just doesn't get it. Honey, go to work, and let me do the cleaning/ packing/moving. Yes, I will probably bitch about it, but I will like you SO MUCH BETTER! Ugh!!

What I Wore Wednesday

2011-04-27T04:06:00.000-07:00

Okay, this weeks edition of WIWW is weak at best! I had alot of "gym clothes" days...I never took a pic of myself on Easter, and the ones I do have are uber-casual. But-they're all I've got, so here goes!

I wore this running errands, and to a Lacrosse Tournament.

Top: Style & Co. from Macy's

Skinny Cargos: Seven from TJ Maxx

Again-uber-casual...just a quick throw on outfit for running errands, and taxiing kids!

Top: Dillards...couple of years ago.

Relax Cargos-Gap...again, a couple of years ago!

So that is all I have for this week-pretty dull, eh? I MUST try to step it up next week! But on a good note, I finally figured out how to edit in Picasa, and save to my computer. Yes, I am THAT slow!

Join the fun! Link up at The Pleated Poppy.

What I Wore Wednesday-Florida Style!

2011-04-19T23:36:00.000-07:00

Since I have decided to do this post, I have come to realize that I spend WAY TOO MUCH time in my gym clothes! I am at the gym every morning except for Thurs., and Sun., so I'm in gym clothes for a good chunk of the day. I have been making a conscious effort to dress when I'm not at the gym-but some days, all I'm doing is driving the kids back and forth to whatever activity, and really, why get dressed up for that??

Usually on Thursday mornings, I clean and believe me when I say you don't want to see me in my cleaning get up! I did have some errands to run after cleaning last Thursday, and this is what I threw on:

The tank is a cheapie from Target, and the shorts are from Nilla Shields. Not loving this outfit!!
Friday was another gym clothes day, but I did manage to put on jeans a cute T when I finally got home. LOVE this T-shirt....it's me!! I got it in a Winery gift shop.

I wore this to Mass on Sunday. The dress is from CAbi, and the jacket is from Macy's.

Here is a shot of the dress sans the jacket. The dress is super comfy, and can also be worn as a long skirt!

Monday was a gym day, but I did change for some errands and to go to the Girls Varsity Lacrosse Playoffs. (They won...Go Indians!) The skinny capris are from Banana Republic, the black tank is Converse One Star from Target. I love this top, and wish the ruffle along the neck line showed up better. The shoes are by Bruno Menegalli, bought at a local shoe boutique.

Man, I need a better camera....or a good photo editor!! Someone help!

I love these shoes! They are so comfy-I can spend hours in them and my feet don't hurt!!
Tuesday was just like any other day in my world-more errands, more kids to shuffle to and fro. I did it all in this dull get-up.

Favorite old jeans from The Gap, white Tank top from Express. Again, DULL!!, but I did try to jazz it up with this DIY neclace that I found on ...lovemaegan

This was sooo easy to make---the scarf was from Target, beads form Michaels. SUPER SIMPLE! And the next photo would be of my favorite Jack Rogers sandals. I have about 8 pair of these, in different colors. They are my favorite summer dress up sandal...even make jeans and a tank look a bit classier!

So, that's it gals! Looking back at these pics...a few conclusions:

1. Still need a new camera or photoshop

2. Still need to accessorize more.....

3. Definitely need to GET OUT OF THE GYM CLOTHES!

xoxo,

Leigh

P.S. so now that it's all done, be sure to link up at The Pleated Poppy.

What I Wore Wednesday

2011-04-13T04:22:00.000-07:00

***I did this post to so I could link up with http://www.thepleatedpoppy.com/ who originally came up with this idea. By the time I got the post up, the link was closed!! Guess I'll have to be quicker, (& better dressed) next week!***

So here it is, my first What I Wore Wednesday post! Before going on, you need to know that I only got 2 outfits out of this, because I spent ALOT of time at the gym last week, and didn't bother to put on "real" clothes.

What I learned-1. I need to find somewhere in my house to snap full pics of myself-the mirror thing is just not cutting it! 2. A better camera would probably be a good idea. 3. I have crappy mirrors in my house, and need a good full length one.

I wore this outfit to a BBQ benefit on Saturday. (I was WAY overdressed!

Grey Rosette Open Vest-Stein Mart

Lucky Brand Shorts-TJ Maxx

Not a great shot, but it's all I've got!

Sunday Mass-Whole Outfit from Target! Mossimo Cardi and white jeans. Shoes by Guess-pics below! I love them, and they are suprisingly comfortable!

I know the full body shots are BAD, but hey, at least I got some cute ones of the shoes! ;)

Happy Hump Day, Ladies!!

iPhone Appsession: Fooducate

2011-04-12T04:18:00.000-07:00

I have a serious addiction to my iPhone-I can't go anywhere without it-REALLY!! I love that "there's an app for that", and I'm always on the lookout for new apps to play around this. I have an app obsession-thus the title "appsession". (Patting myself on the back for that one...damn, I'm good!)

I was reading an quick blurb in a magazine at the gym one day, and it recommended Fooducate. I downloaded the app, and I LOVE IT! It is a great app for anyone who wants to, or does eat a healthy diet. Basically, you pick a food you would normally eat, scan the barcode with the app, and the food gets a grade. The app will give you better alternatives to that food, and tell you why it received the grade it did.

For example, I scanned Quaker Oatmeal Squares cereal. I eat this often and my kids love it. But it got a B- because of it's sugar content, and "controversial artificial colors". Some of the alternatives for it were Grape Nuts (A-), or Raisin Bran (B+).

You can even do a product comparison by scanning 2 different barcodes.

Check it out-it's a great app!!

Got any good ones to share with me?

No, I'm not Dead....

2011-04-06T18:15:00.000-07:00

Talk about Blog neglect, my last post way WAY over 6 months ago. Oh well, I'm back now, and hopefully will shorten the time between posts! I've been meaning to come back to this, just haven't had the time. So if I'm going to blog again, I'm probably going to be a late night blogger. My days are just too busy with kids and a part time job.

Speaking of jobs, I did quit my other part time job at The Vitamin Shoppe. THANK YOU GOD for allowing me to do that-I hated that job, couldn't stand my coworkers, and seriously missed my family. I did learn a huge lesson though-a mother of 3 has no business working retail. The hours were torture!

So, what am I going to do with this blog? When I started it, I had all these hopes of sponsors, going to big blog events, etc. But let's face it-that just won't happen. So here it is, MY blog, where I will come to dump all the nonsense in my brain, post fun things about my family, maybe even an exercise tip or two. I'm looking forward to getting this blog back into gear!!

What Was I Thinking?

2010-07-19T04:15:00.000-07:00

I'm sure you've heard the expression, "I need this like I need another hole in my head." Well, I've said that to myself about 465 times in the last 2 days.

What was I thinking when I said yes to this?

This is Salter, an 8 month old ??labradoddle?? maybe?? Honestly, I don't know, I'm just guessing. He belongs to some friends who are away for 2 weeks. They had a dog sitter (another friend of ours), who was going to take care of him-or so they thought.

Dogsitter came by late Wed. night-(the day Salters family left) for some reason, and told me he felt bad that he wasn't able to get back to the dog until after 6pm THE NEXT DAY. I resisted the urge to strangle him, asked for the keys to the house, and said I would let the dog out in the morning and afternoon. He said the family had said he could just stay at the house while they were gone-but he felt funny doing that. (Then why the f did you agree to watch the dog, dumbass?)

Anyway-ToolTime and I could not let this dog sit in a crate all day long without being let out, so we took him home. The kids are home everyday-so they have been recruited to help out!

What was I thinking? In addition to that-I've got this:

With 3 dogs in the house, it feels like a doggie daycare.

Honestly-I need this like I need another hole in my head!

Project Payback: The Finished Product

2010-07-13T04:21:00.000-07:00

Well, it took me about 5 hours in total, but Payback's room is done....

Let's just say she was in a state of shock when she saw it, and much to my suprise....she said "Thanks, Mom!". I really thought she'd go a little crazy on me.

Next Project....the boys room. Dreading it!!

One Year Later

2010-07-06T19:31:00.000-07:00

It was one year ago today that I went back to work-not by choice, but by necessity. I'm still there-again, not by choice, but by necessity. It's not a great job-it's pretty crappy, in fact. It is part-time, and I make just over minimum wage. But at the time, it was the only thing out there. That still holds true-I look for something new 3 or 4 times a week.

The truth is, I really don't like this job. I'm old enough to a mother to 3 of the other 4 employees. It's in retail-so the hours suck. Hats off to any parent that works full time in retail-because it is the pits. You never see a full weekend. How do parents do it full time?? They should given awards.

Child Boss is 17 years younger than I am-she is recently divorced, and is enjoying "making up for lost time" if you know what I mean. She thrives on letting us all know about, too. Now, I realize I'm from different generation-but can't some things be left unsaid? She has asked me why I don't open up to her and the other employees, honestly, I really don't need these people knowing my business, so I check my outside world at the door.

Gulliver is the assistant manager-he's relatively new, but he really needs to show some signs of having cajones. People walk all over him on a daily basis. It's just sad.

Vampira has magenta hair, a septum piercing, and spacers in her ears. Thank God company policy does not allow these to show cuz they gross me out. She also has a tramp stamp, and constantly wears too small pants and shows her crack. Nice.

Dreadlock Boy is just that- a boy with dreadlocks. Luckily, I never work with him, so he won't be getting a bashing today.

All in all-this job has been quite an experience. I can't believe I have been there for a year. I never thought I would make it this long. As much as I dislike the job, it has been a learning experience in more ways than one. Believe me, I will be only too happy to turn in my resignation when things get better for my family. And that's just it- I'm doing what I have to for my family. Would I rather have a job in the field I have a degree for? Yes, but there are no jobs there. So for now- this just has to do. At least I come with some funny stories about the children I work with.

That's all-rant over! Gotta hit the sack-tomorrow is a work day!

Project Payback

2010-07-05T08:49:00.000-07:00

There are 2 rooms in my house that I do not clean-the kids bedrooms. It is their job to do that themselves. Most of the time it isn't done as well as I'd like it, but as the saying goes, "You've got to pick your battles." So when I do ask them to clean, my only 100% better do it request is that everything is off the floor, otherwise it goes in the trash.

My beautiful daughter, aka Payback, is away for one week in Wisconsin. She is in for a shock when she gets home, because I'm taking a bulldozer into her room. It's time for an overhaul, and since she is not here, she can't stop me. I plan on doing it in pieces, because although the floor is (kinda) clean, nothing else is!

Photographic Evidence:

It appears she has a fondness for stuffing things in hidden corners and the closet floor. While I realize she is no different than other normal teenager-it's time for an intervention.

Today's project-get the big trash can in there, and fill 'er up!

Stay tuned for updates through out the week!

The Dog Days of Summer

2010-07-01T11:09:00.000-07:00

It has been my intention to actually blog over the summer-cuz you know, the kids are home, I'll have more free time since I'm not driving 40+ miles a day. I've got all these great blog ideas stirring in my head-just waiting for me to sit down and let them out. Have I had any time to accomplish this? No. I cannot believe it is July 1 and I have done nothing but a couple of Post It Note Tuesdays. (I love PINT-quick, easy, and done!)

Today has been the kind of day I wish I could have more of. The kids got up and went to the free movie while I taught a class at the gym. We got home, I threw dinner in the crockpot, and made fresh tortillas to serve with it. It is balls to the walls hot out so the kids are allowed a bit of time on the Wii. I head back to the gym at 4 to teach another 2 classes, then I'm home for dinner with the family.

Come to think it, this whole week has been pretty good. We've gone to the beach twice, and the kids have been going out in the evenings and playing baseball with the rest of the neighborhood kids. The best part is that I haven't been at The Horrid Part Time Job much this week at all. I took on 2 extra classes today because I didn't have to go the HPTJ today. So in 3 hours time, I made 2x more than my typical 4 hour shift at HPTJ. Note to self-get more business at the gym.

So, as for those blog ideas-could I recall a single one of them today? No, of course not. They'll come back though. For now-this little family is enjoying the dog days of summer.

Post-It Note Tuesday

2010-06-22T04:29:00.000-07:00

You know the drill!

Click the Post-It above, create your own, and link up!

Have a great Tuesday!

That's all I've got for today!

First Day of Summer Break

2010-06-10T04:04:00.000-07:00

Here it is, the 1st official day of summer vacation.

It has been a long year for us.

All 3 kids at new schools, none happy to go.

1 hormonal teenager, 1 in full puberty, 1 who just doesn't understand

any of it!!

It has been a year of daily morning battles getting those

kids out of bed, and out of the house on time.

So why are all 3 kids up before 7am today, when they have

nowhere to go, nowhere to be?

*On a positive note for me-since I won't be running the taxi service as much, maybe I can actually spend some time on this blog!*

Post It Note Tuesday!!

2010-05-25T08:49:00.000-07:00

Five Question Friday!!

2010-05-21T10:15:00.000-07:00

Wow, 2 blogs in one week-I'm getting better! Now if I could just come up with a creative post of my own.....Actually, I'm working on, the idea is there, I just need to find the damn time!

Anyway, 5 Q's, 5 A's coming right up...

1. Do you have an iPhone and, if so, how do you get apps and what are your favorites?

Oh yeah, and I can't live without it! Although I am probably one of the few people left who has the original iPhone. A new one will be mine very soon, though! BTW-when is the latest and greatest version due out? Pretty soon, right?
Favorite Apps-Google Voice, Amazon Kindle-(GET IT! IT'S FREE!), Grocery IQ, & Shop Savvy. Also love FB and Twitter app, but that kinda goes without sayin"...
My kids love Falldown, Jelly Car, and Action Potato. DO NOT tell them, but I am sadly addicted to them as well, but I suck at them, and the kids rock at them. So. Not. Fair.

2. What is your fondest memory of K-3rd grade?
Ooh, that's tough. My 3rd grade teacher was a cranky little biotch, so scratch that year. Kindergarden was only 1/2 days, and I remember one day we had the "afternoon kids" come in the morning, and I quite enjoyed bullying some boy out of my seat. First grade-not much to recall.
So that leaves 2nd grade.....Mrs Basille, such a nice teacher. Got it! I was Miss Valentine in the class play, "February on Trial". I loved that role, I loved the play, and I still have all the letters the other classes wrote to us about it.

3. What makes you cringe at the thought of touching?
Snakes. Cannot discuss further because I will get the heeby geebies.
4. If you could have any celebrity show up on your doorstep who would it be and why?
Female celeb-Sandra Bullock, and bring the baby please! I think she could be my new bestie, and I could watch that delicious baby while she ran to the grocery store for milk.......
Male celeb-Patrick Dempsey. Cannot discuss further because I will have to censor this blog.

5. What would you say is your best physical feature?
I have a great head of hair (if the weather is right). It is abundantly thick, has lots of natural wave, and so far is still my natural color. There is quite a bit of maintenance that goes with it though-I have an amazing hair stylist who is all that with a razor and thinning shears. I've tried to stray from her outrageous price, but no one compares.
Well, that's all, folks! I must get on with my day! But before I do, I gotta go link up, and hope you will do the same!

PS. I will be blog hopping looking for more fun iPhone apps!

Post-It Note Tuesday

2010-05-18T05:19:00.000-07:00

Where the hell have I been? I kinda fell off the blog wagon for a bit there, but I'm back now!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this post it thingy-it's quick, easy, and right to the point!

PeterSam's Sick Day

2010-05-03T11:54:00.000-07:00

PeterSam wasn't feeling so great yesterday, and of course, being that it's Monday, he was 100 times worse today! So I let him stay home, but I hid every stinking remote in this house before I headed out to work this morning! (Mean Mom!)
I had 2 text messages and 1 voicemail before I left work at 12:30, "When are you coming home?" Do you think the poor kid was bored to death?
We had a nice lunch together, took the rotten dogs out for a walk, and then he helped me plant some seeds. We planted Italian Parsley, Sage, Sunflowers, Poppys and 3 Pumpkin seeds. We've had a great time together!
My intended Monday? Work, home to clean, tackle the laundry, pay bills, get dinner going, back to work, and finally home for the night.
I think I like the way day has gone much better than what was intended. Time with PeterSam, sick or not, is a blessing....I don't get to do that much anymore. The cleaning, laundry, and bills will all certainly still be here tomorrow, but PeterSam will be in school.
I wish more days could be like this!

P.S. I don't have much of a green thumb, so if those seeds grow, it's just a bonus to a great day!

Five Question Friday!

2010-04-30T11:12:00.000-07:00

There must be something seriously wrong with me-I actually forgot for a few minutes that today is Friday. Go ahead, say it..."You need help'.....
What I did not forget is that I haven't done 5QF in 2 weeks, and I was so bummed about that! It feels good to be back!
On that note...here goes....

1. If you could, would you go back to high school?
Um, yeah, probably so! It would have to be a 50/50 split though-keep 50% of what went on, change the other 50. We had some good times, but I was also quite a handful for my parents! But if I do go back, can I keep the big 80's hair??? But no smoking this time around. See....50/50!

2. If a genie appeared and granted you two wishes, what would they be? (And, no saying "more wishes".)
    1. That my family-sisters, brother, & mother could make peace. We are a family divided, and it really bugs me.
    2. Financial stability-I don't need to be rolling in cash, I just wish we could keep up with the bills and not have to penny pinch.

   3. What kids show do you secretly like?
Don't hate me because I'm perfect-(HA) but there isn't one!
Listening to some of those cartoon characters is like nails on a chalkboard to me!

4. What is your beverage of choice?
Non alcoholic-water. Easy enough.
Alcoholic-Cosmopolitan, or Pinot Noir.

5. What is something that you would change about yourself (or are working to change in yourself)?
I have no patience, and can "blow" at any moment. In other words, when I ask my kids to do something, I want them to DO IT NOW! Not in 10 minutes........

Now, time to Link up! An adorable blonde, whom I've never met started this, and she's got the goods on the copying, pasting, linking thing, so clickety here for the full scoop! Thank You, Mama M for the 5Q's!

Good Mail! (and a Coupon Code)

2010-04-29T05:25:00.000-07:00

It seems that all that shows up in my mailbox lately are bills and those annoying offers for yet another credit card. Getting these babies in the mail just about made my day!

My feet (and knees) are so happy to finally have some new cushioning!

AND

I got a great deal on them from RykaFit! As an instructor, I get a discount on them anyway, but they were an extra 20% off-Sweet!

FOR YOU...

The coupon code!! Ryka is offering 20% off to my "clients"!!

Visit http://www.rykafit.com/

Coupon code RCP20

Good through July 31, 2010

I promise you won't be disappointed in Ryka sneakers!!

Florida Edition of Leigh vs. Laundry

2010-04-26T15:16:00.000-07:00

How catchy is that title, "Leigh vs. Laundry"? I LOVE IT, but I take no credit-I stole it from another Leigh who had it way before me.....and she probably doesn't even know I borrowed it for today. A) I love that I found another Leigh and B) I hate laundry as well.
It's a typical Monday in my part of the world...laundry, kids to and fro, work, home, laundry, kids to and fro, back to work, etc.etc.etc. Really, I'm no different than anyone else.

Now, I've been at this marriage/motherhood thing for almost 16 years, and I think I finally have the laundry down to a science. When Tool Time and I got married, he needed a few lessons on putting dirty laundry in the hamper, and he's doing just fine with that now! Payback is pretty good at it-she likes a clean floor, but PeterSam and G-man clearly take after their father. (Sometimes I think they like hearing me yell......)

When it comes down the nitty gritty of tackling the laundry-the kids have to help me separate it, and make sure everything is turned right side out. I take care of the rest-washing, drying, folding. They get the hamper full of clean clothes back, and they get to put it away. It's usually an all day process...5 or 6 loads DONE. And I only do it once a week, so if the clothes don't get in the hamper-they don't get washed!

And here it is, folded and DONE!

Now, really, does anyone give a crap about how I do my laundry??? No, probably not! However, as I was checking up on other blogs, I stumbled upon
this little tidbitfrom the original Leigh vs. Laundry. So, Leigh, this one's for you!

Who Knew?? And, A Product Review...

2010-04-14T10:30:00.000-07:00

Hey, my title rhymes today...damn I'm crafty!! I didn't even plan that....

Who Knew?? that I'd actually feel good about paying bills today. I LOVE to spend money, but not on bills! But times, they have a-changed around here, and paying the bills actually made me smile today. (Do I feel a fever coming on?) I think what felt even better was that ToolTime and I BOTH looked over Mt. BillStack last night, and decided together what was getting tackled. In almost 16 years of marriage, he ran away from the bills and left me to deal with it. We both dug the hole, we gotta fill it together.

A Product Review Now don't get all excited for a great new find-(that will come later!)because this one ain't so hot in the fun factor, but I needed to give it a shout out.

do you think I could have found a smaller image??

See, I told you it's nothing fun, but this stuff just saved my eyes! I have had the worst allergy eyes I have had in years, they have literally been pink to red for over a month. They have been itchy, watery, and just annoying. I tried 2 other allergy drops, and a homeopathic drop to help me, but none of them worked like this stuff. I put the drops in, and in 5 minutes, my eyes finally looked normal! I feel like a new woman....let's just hope it lasts!!

On a final note-the old lady needs a bit of blogger help. Is there any way to permanently change my font from the default to this one I'm using now? Just thowing that out there...someone might know!

Unloading a Few Random Ramblings...

2010-04-13T19:08:00.000-07:00

It's been a shit week. Guess I could have put that on a post-it, but I didn't.

My Uncle Bob died last Thursday. I haven't seen him in over a year-we weren't even close, but he was my fathers only brother, and his death came as a blow. Even worse was my sisters reaction, all she could say was a shocked "Wow." I didn't expect much from her as their relationship took a serious hit a few years ago, but "Wow"?? His funeral was yesterday, and his kids (all grown adults) were so sad-losing a parent is an unbearable pain. Despite the bullcrap that has gone on in my immediate family, I'm glad I put it aside for two hours so I could be there to say good-bye to a wonderful man.

PeterSam and ToolTime are butting heads in a big way. Payback and I were in this place 2 years ago-and it SUCKS. I hope they get over it soon-I'm sick of the arguing and yelling.

Payback did not get into the AP program for 9th grade. THIS is a problem in her self-centered teenage world. I'll deal with it tomorrow!

On a good-no, GREAT note, we finally had a little cash come in. So now, we can begin filling in the financial hole-I never thought I'd look forward to paying bills!!

And finally- can someone please explain to me how Kate Gosselin has managed to stay on DWTS another week? Has America seen her "dance"?

Das it!! I got nothin' else.......

Did I Really Just Say Yes?

2010-04-10T09:19:00.000-07:00

**this is a vent of sorts....so feel free to skip past this one**
**Language Alert**

Will I ever learn to say "Let me get back to you" before I open my fat mouth and blurt out "Yes!". I am seriously kicking myself in the ass right now-I can't believe what I just did. I put that lousy part time job that I really don't like before my kids. What the hell is wrong with me????

On another day, it probably wouldn't be that big of a deal-but today it is. Today, Tool Time and Payback are away on a camping trip, so it's just me and the boys this weekend. I was scheduled to work from 4:30-9:30 tonight, and as much as I'm not thrilled with the idea-my boys are home alone. PeterSam is really responsible, and the neighbors always know when they are here alone. Is this ideal-no, could the State of FL nail me on this-maybe. But it is what it is, I'd lose $$ paying a sitter, and due to the financial distress that we are in-I have to work.

My Child Boss called me this morning, and asked me to come in at 3 so she can get out early. I SAID YES??????? How fucking stupid am I????? I hung up the phone, and after a few minutes started thinking about what I just did. Child Boss is 24, and single. I'm not stupid, I know she is not running home to a family-she is running home to the penis of the month and whatever drinking plans they have for tonight. I am sacrificing my kids for this? This job that I make a shitty $8 an hour at? This job that I really don't care for? I am shooting myself in the foot-AGAIN. I do this to myself ALL THE TIME.

What is that saying about Martyrs dying on the Cross? I'm done with it-I'm done with saying Yes at the drop of a hat, I'm done letting my kids take the back seat to a job. I'm done letting Child Boss abuse me because she knows I need the money. My kids, my family have got to come first. Yes, I took the job to help my family, but really, what good does it do if I have to sacrifice the welfare of my children? (okay that may be a bit of an exageration-it's only 1.5 hours difference)

I just made a phone call.......

Child Boss is not too pleased, but I don't give a rats ass. I told her getting there at 3 is impossible-and it is. G-man is at a birthday party that is done at 2. PeterSam is at a friends house until 2:30. Considering the driving-I will be in the car for a good 45 minutes picking them up-and it takes me 15 min. to get to the crappy job. (Why am I justifying this to anyone?) Child Boss asked "3:15, 3:30, what time?" I told her I would get back to her as soon as I knew. Screw You, you get paid your salary regardless of whether you stay or go-so don't push me to give you a set time.

Damn, I'm pissed. But at least I learned a lesson.

Ultimate Blog Party 2010

2010-04-09T13:54:00.000-07:00

As I do every morning before I head out the door to work, I quickly check Twitter, and find that there is a party going on, and dammit why did I not know about it?????

As soon as I got home from work, I had to investigate....it's a Blog Party! I've never attended one-so I think it's about time to fix that!

Now, I'm usually pretty quiet at the start of a party, but I can't be at this one-so here goes.....

I'm Leigh-that's Lee, not Leah, or Lay, and I'm 43. I've been married for almost 16 years to Tool Time, and we have 3 kids. One daughter, Payback-14, and 2 sons, Peter Sam-12, and G-man-8. We live in (hot humid)Florida. I work outside the home as a Personal Trainer, and Group Ex Instructor. I also have a part-time at The Vitamin Shoppe because this economy SUCKS, and well it's a looonnnggg story, but we need the money.

Being that my kids are older, and I'm way past diaper duty-I've entered a whole new world being the mom of teenagers. HOLY CRAP-this is harder than having 2 toddlers running away from you in opposite directions! The head games....the drama....the guilt trips.....it's unbelievable!! But, I wouldn't trade my life for anything-my family is my world!

As far as parties go-LOVE THEM! Give me a cosmopolitan, and I'm all game-as long as I know who's there, otherwise it takes me a while to ~~drink enough~~ warm up!! So my plan for tonight is to join this check out some fellow partiers...can't wait to make new friends!

So ladies, I'm off to ~~drink~~ link up now....Enjoy the party!

Five Question Friday

2010-04-09T11:15:00.000-07:00

It's Five Question Friday! This little bit is hosted by Mama M, and you can find her, and the Linky thingy right here. She's got all the goods on this one!

1. Who would you want to play you in a movie of your life?
Because I think she's a great actress, I'd say Sandra Bullock. If were looking for me with a great body-Demi Moore. Me ten years younger-Anne Hathaway.

2. Did you ever go to summer camp?
No, always wanted to, but never did. I had to live vicariously through movies about summer camp-like Meatballs, and that one with Jodi Foster and Kristy McNichol--what the hell was the name of it??? Shit, I can't remember-but it was a good movie at the time!
And yes, I realize some of you are wondering about Meatballs, and Kristy McNichol. I am THAT old people!!

3. What sends you running and screaming in the other direction?
Snakes-hate 'em hate 'em hate'em!! Not good when you live in Florida........

4. What is something you do that drives your spouse nuts?
I was a spoiled rotten brat as a child, and still have the tendency to throw a good fit.

5. What is currently your favorite song?
Don't know who sings it, but I think it's called Beautiful Girl.
But-I do have an obsession going on with anything Rob Thomas sings.
Long time old favorite-Here Comes My Girl by Tom Petty.

Smell-o-blog, and a bit of Nostalgia

2010-04-07T09:26:00.000-07:00

This tree is in my neighbors yard-I walk by it a few times when I take my dogs out. It is an orange tree, and it's blooming right now. I wish there was a way I could put the smell on my blog, because orange blossoms smell SO GOOD! I actually look forward to fighting with my 2 rotten dogs just so I can walk by that tree and inhale the sweet aroma. Once upon a time, this whole town would smell of orange blossoms for about 3 weeks every spring. That was before the housing boom when the developers bought up the orange groves and built ( most now empty and forclosed on) houses on the land. It's kind of sad-it's spring time, and you can't smell the orange blossoms in Vero Beach, FL.
The other thing that is missing from Spring in Vero Beach, is Spring Training. The Dodgers had their Spring Training camp here for YEARS, but they've moved to Arizona. Now, I'm not really a Dodger Fan, (die hard Yankee fan, though!) but there was definitely a missing element in this little town for the month of March. No Dodgers, no orange blossoms. I don't think we even have a AAA league here this year-so I won't be taking the kids to any night time games this summer.
At the time when all of the nonsense with the City of Vero Beach and the Dodgers was going on-I really could have cared less. But damn those orange blossoms for reminding my of what Spring used to be like here.

Post it Note Tuesday-Late Night Edition

2010-04-06T19:12:00.000-07:00

Hhmmm, that last post it just might make a good blog post......

5 Question Friday

2010-04-02T13:28:00.000-07:00

Many Thanks to Mama M for starting this--check out her blog here.
My answers are short and to the point today-I'm heading out to work. Anyway, visit Mama M, link up, and shell out some answers!

1. Do you sing out loud in the car when you're driving?
Yes, of course. And I sound like a rock star.

2. What would you never be caught doing?
Damn, I hate hard questions! Um, trying on bikini bottoms without my underwear on. Um, farting out loud in public. Leaving the house without a bra on, leaving the house without underwear on. Ooh-licking my fingers and wiping something off the kids faces. (although I teasingly try this with them, and they are mortified-that part is fun!)

3. Will you go #2 in a public restroom?
When you gotta go, you gotta go. Thank God for strong thighs and my love of squats.
4. Have you ever broken a bone?
Yes, my little toe, about 2 months ago. I dropped one of those hard plastic Oxo containers on it. The damn thing hurt for a solid 6 weeks, then...poof! all better!

5. Do you prefer cooking or baking?
I don't mind either, I definitely cook more than I bake, though.

Biotch-ing!

2010-04-01T12:18:00.000-07:00

Tool Time has a very close friend, and through that friendship, our children have become good friends. My daughter Payback and son G-man are at their house right now-they spent the night last night. Tool Time drove the kids to their last night-it's a good 10 mile hike all the way to the other end of town, and depending on traffic, can take about 25 minutes to get there. (I know- I live in Florida, and really, there is no "traffic"-but it is amazing how spoiled I've become. We've got snowbirds, and man can they drive slow!) Anyway....here is my beef-the friends NEVER drive either way. We are constantly driving there, and back, and I'M SICK AND F'ING TIRED OF IT! There is no reason she (their mother) can't get in the car and drive my kids home. I know these are MY kids, and if I want them, I should go get them, but can we have a little 50/50 here? Maybe the next time she wants my kids to spend the night, she can get her ass in the car and come get them! Sidenote:ToolTime himself is a chunk of the problem-he has no issues driving down, and back...probably because he can have a drink and a smoke while he's there- UGH!

So here I sit, stewing. I called Payback, and she finally answered her phone...told her she needed to be home by 4:30, she relays the message to Miss I'm Not Driving. What did I just get-a text message from Payback-"Dad is picking me up at 5:00." Enjoy that cigarette, Honey. And as for you, Miss I'm Not Driving, next time you want my kids to sleep over, you can come get them yourself.

Done bitching now.

YO TWEEPS!!

2010-04-01T04:09:00.000-07:00

YoTweeps Traffic Exchange! Week 3

Wanna meet some cool Tweeple? Check this out-

DIRECTIONS:

To play along and increase your twitter twaffic do the following:

1. Follow the first FOUR Twitter Twaffic hosts listed on the linky. Netiquette and courtesy! They'll reciprocate your love on twitter!

2. MAKE A BLOG POST LIKE I am doing. Copy and Paste these directions INTO IT.

3. Grab the YO Tweeps Twaffic Exchange Button pictured below. Put him in your post

Encourage your readers to come to our page and grab the button too !

5. Put YOUR OWN twitter icon or simply a link on your blog post like I did. It should directly link to your TWITTER PROFILE. ( there are directions below if you need)

6. Now link up the post that you just wrote to the linky below!

7. Visit some other #YOtweeps linkers on the list.

8. Follow them if you choose and shout out to them on twitter that you are following so they can instantly follow you if they're on.

(Follow their blog as well if you're interested.)

Example:

@personsname #yotweeps I'm following!

9. If someone follows you JUST reciprocate on twitter. It's that easy.

10. You have to have a BLOG POST to do this.

(Not So) Wordless Wednesday, and a Thank You!

2010-03-31T09:34:00.000-07:00

I think it was 2 weeks ago that I posted the picture of a woman on the floor, with a stack of bills. She is splayed out, in total overwhelmed frustration. That woman is me-no not REALLY me, but you know what I mean.
My husband and I have living the American Nightmare for the last 15 months. He owns a carpentry business, and there has been very little work. We poured EVERYTHING we had into keeping that business going. There were a few good months in the fall, bills were getting paid on time, food was on the table...all was well. But it turned again, and there are no big jobs on the horizon, and the small stuff just can't support a family of 5 with bills out the you-know-what.
My husband, Tool Time, got a job yesterday. He will have a steady paycheck. This really hasn't sunk in for me yet-probably won't until I see a check, but I am actually starting to feel a glimmer of hope. I actually had a genuine smile on my face today, it wasn't fake or forced. It felt good to smile again.
We have a LONG road ahead of us....regardless of what he earns, money will be TIGHT. I've always toyed with a budget, but never really had to stick to one. Then when I got one set, and actually stuck to it, there was no money to budget with!! Ha-what a lesson learned! Anyway-can you guess what dirty 7 letter word is now in the forefront of my vocabulary??
There is a pinprick in the black curtain, and a glimmer of light is peeking through. WE ARE BLESSED.

THANK YOU to the lovely ladies who had such kind and encouraging words for me yesterday. I do read the comments on my blogs, and I thank you for taking the time to reach out to me. It meant alot!

Post It Note Tuesday

2010-03-30T04:26:00.000-07:00

Someday, when I have a few more minutes, and can look at our situation through clear eyes, I'll blog about it. For now, I'm praying that Tool Time finds a real job, (and I gotta get ready to go to work-cuz it's all we got right now!)

5 Question Friday

2010-03-26T09:51:00.000-07:00

It's that time again... I love it!! You may know the drill by now, but if not, click here and get the lowdown on how to join the fun! Thanks Mama M, for the Questions!

1. Did you pass your driver's test on the first try?

Yes, I did! However, I did have a bad accident before I got my license, and I didn't drive for months. My parents finally got me private lessons-God Bless that man, he had alot of patience!

2. What is your most embarrassing moment?
Can I say I don't know??? I've never been THAT embarrassed. Well, there was the time my 2y.o. son had diarrhea under a clothing rack in the Reebok outlet-and it went ALL OVER THE CARPET. Yeah, that was pretty bad. I think having kids has made me more tolerant of my own stupidity-stuff will happen, and I just sorta let it roll....

3. What TV show would you like to be on- Oprah, Biggest Loser, or What Not to Wear?
What Not to Wear-I try to stay in fashion, but sometimes I think I dress too young for my age, but then again, I don't want to look 10 years older, either! And I'd love to know what styles flatter my figure. If I'm not in gym clothes, I'm in jeans or shorts with tanks or tees.

4. Would you ever get plastic surgery and what kind?
Yes! And I never thought I would say that when I was younger, but as the years creep up, it's a definite yes! If I had the cash, I'd have my boobs put back where God meant them to be. Maybe a shot of Botox or two....

5. What are your favorite jeans to wear?
Banana Republic makes great jeans at a decent price. If I have the $$$ I like 7 for all mankind, but I never have $$$ anymore, so there goes that!

Yo Tweeps! Twaffic Exchange!

2010-03-25T03:58:00.000-07:00

Love Twitter??? Love Twaffic??? Then join in the fun!
Click on the Twitter link on my sidebar---Follow me, I'll follow you back!

Full detailed directions can be found on Supahmommy's page here.

And of course...grab the button!!

Post It Note Tuesday!

2010-03-23T05:34:00.000-07:00

C'mon, join the fun! For the directions, links, etc visit http://supahmommy.blogspot.com/

She's got all the goods on this one!

I'd do it myself, but I'm gonna be late for the hideous job of mine<--wait, do I care??

5 Question Friday!!

2010-03-19T09:58:00.000-07:00

It's finally Friday!!! Should I type that in CAPS, cuz I do want to shout it! I'll just go Bold....there, that's better!
I love 5QFriday-I love the idea-it's an easy blog post for those of us who have no creative juices flowing at the moment, and that would be me! But the real truth is it is just FUN! So if you want to have some fun with me...clickety here . This is Mama M's blog, and she is the genius behind this little questionnaire. So hit her blog-copy, and paste away, link up, and share some love!

1. Have you ever had a celeb sighting?
YES!! All in one day...my kids and I were in NY for a family wedding, and Hurricane Jeanne hit FL so we couldn't come home. (damn!!) Anyway, one day, we hopped on a train for NYC, and headed to Times Square. Since we watch GMA on ABC, the kids knew exactly where we were....while we were nosing around the studio windows, a security guard came over and asked me if I wanted to meet John Travolta-um, hello, I know EVERY word to Grease-YES!! So he directed the kids and I over to a door, and in a few minutes, who comes out...but yes, John Travolta himself, and I just about died right there! He signed an autograph for the kids, and I could spit was, "Be polite, say thank you." to the kids, then I shook his hand....and he was wisked away into a limo.
So I stumble my way across the street to Toys R Us, and lo and behold there is Donald Trump signing autographs on his new doll-The Apprentice was new and in full swing. So, we buy a doll, I send off the kids, and he asks them why they are not in school...I explain that we are hurricane refugees....he tells my daughter she's fired...and we are wisked awayby security. P.S. the Donald's hair??? not that bad in person.

2. What temperature do you keep your house?
I live in FL, so in summer, we keep the AC at about 78-80.
In winter, we very rarely have to turn the heat on, but sometimes we will turn it on, I think at 70, but Tool Time does it, so I'm clueless.

3. Do you notice dust at other peoples homes?
No, not really. I'm too busy looking at the decor, and asking where they got it.

4. What's the worst job you ever had?

I'd say it is the current one-my part time job at the Vitamin Shoppe. Now, I will say I have learned ALOT about supplements and nutrition, but the hours SUCK! Retail hours and motherhood are not a good combination!
Two thing though-1) as much as I hate the job, I am grateful to have it. I was lucky to find it in this declining economy. 2)I have a whole new world of respect of mothers who have full time jobs, and single mothers who are working to support their kids--how the hell do you do it all??? HATS OFF TO YOU!

5. What is your most sentimental possession?
My Miraculous Medal. My father wore it for years on a neclace, and he died with it on. I have had it with me ever since. It is my constant reminder of my father, and that someone is always watching over me.

Now, link up, and comment, comment, comment!

Yo Tweeps!! Twaffic Exchange!

2010-03-17T08:59:00.000-07:00

Miss Uncreative (Moi) has linked up, cut, and pasted this fun way to increase your twitter twaffic. Kudos to Supahmommy for the great idea!

***If none of my links works-please go to Supahs page---I'm old and unfunctional, so...yeah.

DIRECTIONS:

To play along and increase your twitter twaffic do the following:

1. Follow the first 5 Twitter Twaffic hosts listed on the linky. Netiquette and courtesy! They'll reciprocate your love on twitter!

2. MAKE A BLOG POST LIKE I am doing. Copy and Paste these directions.

3. Grab the YO Tweeps Twaffic Exchange Button pictured below. Put him in your post.

Encourage your readers to come to our page and grab the button too !

(He's so cute. Put him on your sidebar too if you're that kinda girl. Netiquette... not a hairspray ;) lol )

5. Put YOUR OWN twitter icon / link on your blog post like I did. It should directly link to your TWITTER PROFILE. ( there are directions below if you need)

6. Now link up your post below in the linky!

7. Visit some other #YOtweeps linkers on the list.

8. Follow them if you choose and shout out to them on twitter that you are following so they can instantly follow you if they're on.

(Follow their blog as well if you're interested.)

Example:

@personsname #yotweeps I'm following!

9. If someone follows you JUST reciprocate on twitter. It's that easy.

Have fun with this Tweeps!!

xoxo Leigh

Small Messages

2010-03-16T19:05:00.000-07:00

I have been stewing the past few days about what to post-I've got alot on my mind, and this is my place to be honest.
So-being completely honest-my family is in bad shape. We have ALOT of problems right now, and I was going to come here tonight and spill it...but I really don't want this blog to be a place of sadness. I'm generally a pretty happy person-that is how I want my blog to be.
I had noticed an email from my girlfriend Jill-she is one who does all of the chain emails, etc., but they are usually very positive, so I opened an e-mail titled "God's Little Notes"-and there they were-post it like notes with little messages about God. Now, I am not an overly religious person, but I do believe in God. I really liked what some of the messages said, so I copied them and decided to make them my post for today. Wouldn't you know I copied them here and NOTHING showed up!! It's late, I'm tired, I'm not futzing around trying to fix it, so I went to the blogspot address that was on the little notes, AND I STRUCK GOLD.
I do believe that you are led to things for a reason-and just as I was ready to unload all of my problems, I was led to this amazing blog. Five reasons God permits problems???? and I happened across this NOW??

Post It Note Tuesday

2010-03-16T12:36:00.000-07:00

Yo Tweeps!! Traffic Exchange!!

2010-03-13T20:17:00.000-08:00

I'm participating in a twitter carnival of sorts.

Here's the jist:

To play along and increase your twitter twaffic: we need to meet some new people.

1. Follow me on twitter . Click on my twitter feed-it's on my sidebar. Follow me-I'm way cool! HA!!

2. Shout me a hello on twitter like so: @lptrainermom #yotweeps I'm following!
Then I'll know you followed and I'll reciprocate.

3. MAKE A BLOG POST LIKE I am doing. Copy and Paste these directions.

3. Grab the YO Tweeps Twaffic Exchange Button. Put him in your post.

(He's so cute. Put him on your sidebar too if you're that kinda girl. )

Listen tweeple-I'm old and I'm slow, so if the cute picture takes you to Supah's page-grab the code from her. She is much better than I am at this linking coding joining thing.

6. Link that post up over at SupahMommy's blog

7. Visit some other #YOTweeps linkers on the list.

8. Follow them if you choose and shout out to them on twitter that you are following so they can instantly follow you if they're on. (Follow their blog as well if you're interested.)

Example:

@lptrainermom #yotweeps I'm following!

9. If someone follows you JUST reciprocate. It's that easy.

xoxo
Leigh

Wordless Wednesday-'Nuff Said

2010-03-10T08:14:00.000-08:00

Starting over, Part XLVII

2010-03-08T10:23:00.000-08:00

Today is my "New Year". Today, I made my resolution to clean up my diet-AGAIN. I am doing it today because my birthday was last week, and technically-it's a new year for me!! So, since the chronological number is increasing, and the metabolism is decreasing, it's time for me to get back on Weight Watchers. 3 years ago I lost 30 on WW, and it was a very easy change for me to make. All was well and good until that Christmas, when I gained a few pounds back. I've been on an 8# rollercoaster ever since. It is time for me to get off this ride!

As a trainer, here is my take on diets. It may take trying 3 or 4 before you find the right one for you. When you find it, stick with it, give it all you got! Also, you should never feel deprived, or hungry! I could go on and on, but I won't....I'll save that for another day! :)

So my day started with a very healthy breakfast of 2 pumpkin pancakes with ricotta filling, and a glass of Greens+ mixed with water and OJ. That awful looking stuff in the cup-Greens+, is amazing. It is loaded with vitamins, and it's basically your 5 servings of fruits and veggies in a drink. I know what you're thinking-it must taste NASTY, but it's actually pretty good. I always buy the Wild Berry Burst flavor a)because it's got acai, goji, pomegranate, etc it-all good antioxidants, and b) you can actually taste the berries, not the healthy green stuff! It tastes even better when mixed with 1/2 c. of water, and 1/2 c. of OJ. Their website is http://www.greensplus.com/ , just in case you are interested!

YOU MUST TRY THESE PANCAKES.....
1c. low fat baking mix (I use Bisquick Heart Smart)
1T sugar
1/2 t. cinnamon or pumokin pie spice
2 large eggs
3/4c. fat free milk
1/2 c. canned pumpkin
Combine all the dry ingredients in a mixing bowl. Combine wet ingredients in a separate bowl-mix well. Add the wet mix to the dry, and stir until smooth. (Or if you are lazy like me, dump it all in the KitchenAid Bowl, and turn it on)
Pour 1/4 cup batter per pancake onto a hot griddle or skillet. Cook until tops are covered in bubbles and edges look cooked. Carefully turn over, cook until bottoms are slightly browned.
Makes 12 pancakes. Ea:61 cal, 1.3g. fat, 2.4g protein,8.9g carbs, .5 fiber.

Ricotta cream-super easy!! Mix 1 tablespoon part skim ricotta with 1/2t. cinnamon, and a sprinkle of sugar if needed. Place the creme between 2 pancakes and enjoy!

Healthy start to the day...CHECK!
Exercise.....CHECK!
Drinking lots of water....CHECK!
NO snacking after dinner.......REMAINS TO BE SEEN!

5 Question Friday

2010-03-05T12:35:00.000-08:00

It's Friday!! I just got home from a great lunch with my girls-nothing like a lunch therapy session. We hit TJ Maxx afterwards and laughed until we cried trying on BIG hats-it was so fun, we've decided to have a Kentucky Derby Party!

So...5Q Friday....Thank you, Mama M, for putting this all together!!

1. What's your guilty pleasure?
Ice cream-every night. Granted, it's Weight Watchers Giant Cookies and Cream Bar, but it is so good! I wait until everyone is safely tucked in bed, then I get my few moments of low-cal guilt.
BUT-if $$$ will allow, I have snuck off for a facial on occasion, and I walk out of there one hour later like a whole new person!! DO NOT tell my husband!! ;)

2. What is your favorite TV series?
It's a toss up-I love Grey's Anatomy, nothing wrong with a little McDreamy eye candy.
I also fall into a deep hole when it comes to the Real Housewives....love each series, and I'm sadly addicted.
If we are talking about longest watched show-it's General Hospital....do you remember when Luke and Laura got married??

3. Can you speak any foreign languages?
Spanglish

4. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
Really? I have no clue-but there are many. Sneakers, flip flops, wedges, boots, even a pair of Birkenstocks. Some have mysteriously made their way down the hall into my daughter's room....not by choice, and definitely not without a fight!

5. What's your favorite kind of M&M's...peanut, almond, straight up regular, etc.?
Peanut, without a doubt. The addiction started during my first pregnancy, and has grown...and grown...They are by far my favorite candy!

Thanks, but......

2010-03-03T09:22:00.000-08:00

These ginormous cupcakes were a gift from one of my clients.

They are the size of half of my boo-tay. Yes, I held them up to my backside,

and in the container they will stay until my kids get home from school.

I love red velvet cupcakes, but I love my butt more.

Winding Down

2010-03-02T18:53:00.000-08:00

My favorite part of the day

Late at night, when the kids are sleeping

Hubs and the dogs are snoring away

A warm cup of Chamomile tea

My shoes come off, and I finally slow down

Unwind, decompress, and enjoy

Just a few moments by myself

to reflect on what the day has brought,

to look forward to what tomorrow may bring.

Because It's My Birthday....

2010-03-01T09:36:00.000-08:00

Today is my birthday-I'm 43. In honor of my aging, I've decided to list 43 things about ME!! Here goes!

1. I was born in New Rochelle, NY
2. I am the youngest of 6--4 sisters and one brother.
3. My 3 oldest are old enough to be my parents.
4. My entire immediate family went to the same high school-parents and all.
5. I have a 3" scar on my stomach from an operation when I was 1 month old.
6. I had horrible teeth as a child-my father spent thousands to fix that!
7. I have terrible vision, but wear contacts.
8. I once had Aqua contacts-back in the 80's..when they were new-God, I was so cool.
9.  My first job was at Baskin Robbins-thus my love for ice cream.
10. I was not popular in school at all!
11. My degree is in Radiology-I am a Registered Radiologic Technologist, but no longer work in the field.
12. My favorite part of my X-Ray job was being in the operating room-bring on the blood and guts.
13. My second career is in Fitness-I'm a certified Trainer, and Instructor. I LOVE FITNESS!
14. My favorite class is Step.
15. My diet leaves alot to be desired.
16. I don't like many green veggies, cucumbers, lettuce, peppers are about it.
17. I love junk food.
18. I love red meat, and dislike seafood.
19. In reference to #18, friends say I am a cheap date!
20. I love to shop, but I'm on a spending freeze, and I hate it.
21. I have a job by force-"Health Enthusiast" at the Vitamin Shoppe-doing all I can to get my fam thru a    BAD financial pickle.
22. I don't like the VS job, but I'm learning alot from it about supplements. Have you taken your multi today????
23. I'm a NY Yankees fan.
24.  I moved to FL when I was 19.
25.  I met my husband in a bar on Christmas night.
26. I have 3 kids-1 girl, 2 boys. LOVE them to death.
27. All 3 kids were born by C-Section.
28. I am trying to declutter and clean-Sink Reflections by Marla Cilley is my new favorite book.
29. I hate cleaning.
30. I hate my feet.
31. I'm TERRIFIED of snakes-like run screaming, pee in your pants terrified.
32. Favorite Male Singer-Rob Thomas.
33. Favorite Female Singer-Pink
34. Favorite Movie-Grease.....Close 2nd-Officer and a Gentleman
35. In my circle of girlfriends-I am the only one with real boobs.
36. I've had 3 kids-I need the fake boobs. Mine are south of the equator.
37. Favorite Flower-Orchid.
38. Favorite Color-Royal Blue
39. Favorite Drink-Cosmopolitan.....water if we're talking non-alcoholic.
40. I have a shoe wall in my closet...and it's full.
41. I prefer silver jewelry over gold.
42. I'm a natural brunette.
43. I had to struggle to lose the baby weight after the 2nd and 3rd kid.

Ya know what-it is NOT easy to come up with 43 things about myself. God, I'm boring!
God Bless YOU for reading this though...hope I didn't put you to sleep!

5 Question Friday

2010-02-26T10:56:00.000-08:00

Many thanks to Mama M for yet another fun 5Q Friday! Clickety the cute button below to visit her blog!

1. Do you sing karaoke? If so, what is your go to song?

Ooh-haven't sung karaoke in MANY years. I think the last time was around 1990, or 91. It had just come out and become very popular right after I met Tool Time, and it was a Friday Happy Hour-stay all night at the bar-kind of thing. Ouch, I'm dragging up some scary memories :)

2. What is your favorite coffee drink?
At home, I use fat free half & half, and a Caramel Splenda Stick. I am very spoiled-Tool Time brings me my cup of joe every morning before I get up. I'm a slow mover in the morning, so 2 cups are a must! If I'm out and spending ridiculous money for my joe-it's usually a skinny latte in hazelnut, or vanilla.

3. If you could choose your own name, what would it be?
Probably something mainstream, like Mary, Anne, or Catherine. I don't mind my name-I just dislike the fact that people constantly call me Leah, or Lay. Do you see an "A" in L-E-I-G-H? I see the valid spelling-pronunciation thing with Lay, but really, who would name a kid Lay??

4. Were you ever bullied?
Yes, in Junior high. A very large girl took offense because I would not tell her my grades. They were BAD, and I was embarrased. Shame on me-she unloaded alot of her big onto my small in the bathroom, and we both ended up in the principals office. Once again-digging up scary memories!!! LOL!

5. How often do you eat fast food?
Don't hate me for being honest, but if I eat fast food 3x a year-that is alot! Not that I'm all healthy and organic-I just try to stay away from it. However, I will confess that if I have the slightest bit of a queazy tummy (usually from one too many the night before), McDonald's is my new best friend.

Is it too late to apologize to my parents??

2010-02-24T10:11:00.000-08:00

My father is deceased, but my mother is alive. Perhaps it is not too late to call her and apologize for all the horrible, rotten things I did in high school. I was no angel. I'm sure I apologized at the time of my busting-my mother could work a good guilt trip. Maybe I need to repent further, because I just got my first call from the vice principals office. There is a reason I call my beautiful daughter "Payback".

Apparently, she snuck a pair of jeans into school, and changed when she got there. The school has a "no denim" policy. The principal caught her, and she fessed up. Oh......Payback.

Now in all honesty, I'm laughing-this is a minor offense. My son, Middle Man, is having some problems with kids teasing him, and although Payback "hates him", she did say she wanted to know who teasing him. When I heard the vice principal say she had Payback in the office-I honestly thought she used some of her black belt skills on some poor kid. Thank God for small favors.....

And Mother-really, I'm sorry!!

An Open Letter To Florida Residents

2010-02-22T11:09:00.000-08:00

Dear Fellow Florida Residents, Snowbirds, and even some Visitors,

The saying goes that when you move to Florida, your blood thins and you just can't stand the cold. Well, I'm here to tell you that your blood does not thin just from moving south, but a nice presciption of Coumadin might do the trick. Point: your blood is just as thick as it always was.

I have been here since 1986, I moved here from New York. What? You moved here from the somewhere up North, too? So many transplants in Sunny Florida these days! Now I know it has been a "cold" winter here-there have been days when we've woken up to temps in the 30's. But it always warms up a bit-even on the coldest of days. Yes, our winter has lasted longer this year than in the past few years. I, for one, really enjoy the break from the constant heat and humidity. Okay, so it's not clear skies today-is that really a reason to get depressed???? You know full well that the sun will be shining tomorrow, maybe even this afternooon. Point: QUIT COMPLAINING! You survived just fine up North for xxx years, through many a brutal winter. You can survive a few days/weeks of cooler temps down here. Get over it people-is the grass still green, or snow covered? Are the leaves on the trees, or are the trees bare? We live in a tropical paradise-and if you can't take a change in climate, then you need to head further south.

In closing, I will fully admit that I dislike all the heat-I will be the first to complain about sweating, and big humidity hair. You have my permission to get all soapbox-y on me when the time comes.

Best,
Leigh

Daddy Daughter Dance

2010-02-21T13:54:00.000-08:00

I have a feeling that this may be the last year that Payback wants to go to the Daddy Daughter Dance. She is 14 now, she is the oldest girl in her Indian Princess Tribe-all the others are under 10 except for one, who is 12. Wow, how my girl has grown. She is officially an inch taller than me (wah!!), she has legs a mile long. I *know* that we are lucky that she hasn't started to pull away from us yet-afterall, she is My Payback, and I had already cut a few ties at her age. I am a blessed woman to have such a beautiful daughter, and I still wonder exactly what I did right in order to deserve her.

P.S. Honorable Mention to Chester, the ugly Pug sitting on the couch. He's ugly and not too smart, but we love him.

The Apple Didn't Fall Far Enough....

2010-02-20T16:25:00.000-08:00

First, I love my husband. Really, I do. He drives me nuts, but I do love the man.
Second, I have great inlaws. They are wonderful people who have given us the world.

However....while I've kinda known this for long time, it was confirmed today. My husband is his mother's son. Let me explain why this is not a good thing, Martha.

Today, I joined Tool Time, his 2 brothers and future sister-in-law at the Inlaws house to do a major cleaning overhaul. The Inlaws are in their 80's, she's got dementia, but he's still got all of his wits. They are both in good health, although they take in excess of 34 pills a day between them both. (!!!!) It was a family decision to do this overhaul without Mother Inlaw there-would have freaked her out.

Anyway, I show up about 3 hours late because I was Taxi-Mom. Tool Time had just finished the fridge, and was starting on the spice cabinet. Mother Inlaw was once a great cook, so she had LOTS of spices. Some were from 1990. Some were so old, we actually saved them because Sister Inlaw (who was absent from this fun event) collects antiques, and wouldn't that look nice in her kitchen??? The thing that scared me was the comments from Tool Time. If I heard "Don't throw that spice away-it might still be good." one more time, I was going to stuff him into the spice cabinet and deadbolt it. Even Young Brother Inlaw-who is a professional chef-told him dried spices only last a short while, they do go rancid. But still, he wanted them saved......

He went out to get us all lunch. Guess where the spices went.

On to the Tupperware drawer-or lack of Tupperware bottoms drawer. More of the same. Yeah.

My husband is a pack rat, just like his mother. "Just save it, you might need it someday." I love you honey, but you married a pitcher!!

DISCLOSURE: Cleaning the Inlaws house was not the highlight of my life, it was quite the opposite. However, I am grateful that we were able to help them out.

My 1st Five Question Friday

2010-02-19T09:22:00.000-08:00

Okay, if you are on my page, you KNOW I did not come up with this myself-I copied it and Mc Linky'd it!! (But I'm glad you are here) If you haven't copied and pasted just as I did yet-click the cute little button and join the fun!

1. Have you ever hit an animal with your vehicle?Yes!! We had just bought a VW Passat, and for the first few weeks, I must have hit a squirrel every day!!! Then one morning I hit a raccoon, and the streak ended there!

2. When you see a string on your clothes do you pull it off or cut if off?
Yes, to both!! If I can pull with out doing more damage, I pull. If not, it's getting cut.

3. Did you have your own room or share a room when you were young?
Had my own room-I am the youngest of 6, so I was a bit spoiled :). However, in my defense-my closest sister is 8 years older, and most of my sibs were adults when I was born.

4. Would you rather wear the same thing for the rest of your life or eat the same thing for the rest of your life?
Ooh, that is a tough one! Hhhmmm....I love to shop, and I'm a picky eater, so I guess I have to say eat the same thing for the rest of my life. Just gotta make sure it's something I like!!

5. What was your favorite TV show as a child?
Happy Days, and Laverne & Shirley. Tuesday night on ABC, 8 and 8:30. I was glued.

Now, I will see if I can add this McLinky thing. I'm new to this blogging stuff, I'm old and NOT a computer geek, so if I get it right, please take a second and clap for me! Thanks! xoxox

Cannot Live Without!! (for the moment)

2010-02-18T11:56:00.000-08:00

YUMMY!! These are 100 calories of chocolatey deliciousness!

My nails have never been happier!

This book has changed my life, and my household.

Why Valentine's Day Is No More

2010-02-15T10:27:00.000-08:00

Do you see that little cutie? That would be my youngest child, that would be the G-man. It was 8 years ago on Valentine's day that my family was blessed with this perfect baby boy. He is why we don't celebrate the coming of the cupid any longer in our home-his birthday takes precedence. Now, it is the child's birthday and it should be all about him, but I haven't seen a chocolate or flower since 2002. I think Tool Time was just about sick of hearing about that, so this year he stepped up and bought me a beautiful orchid-love them because they are no/low maintenance.

He done good. Thanks, hon! And thank you even more for being a great dad and husband. As much as I love the orchid, the very best Valentine gift is my son. Happy Birthday, G-man. You stink, and I love you!!

The Queen of Random

2010-02-09T19:23:00.000-08:00

I got to work this morning and the new Asst. Manager-AKA Gulliver, was there with his nice new work duds, and shiny new shoes. Back pedal just a tad-I work at The Vitamin Shoppe, and (shocker) we sell vitamins and generally try to promote health and fitness. Gullivers meal for the shift-Burger King hash browns, 2 cheesy wraps (??), girl scout cookies, a whole sleeve of Cheddar Pringles, and to healthy it all up-a green apple. To throw some sugar on top, he claims to be a personal trainer while he is not at The VitShoppe. Nice.
Being a trainer myself-I've got some issues with this. Just sayin'.
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I am very proud of my daughter, My Payback, for making the lacrosse team at school. She really enjoys it, and I am beyond delighted that she is finally involved in something at school. However, it is an expensive sport. We just bought a new stickhead for (shudder) $105. Attach that baby to the old stick, and off she goes. Yeah....NO. She needs a new stick with a bend in it. (Gimme the old one, I'll bend it!) Off I go to the store to price the new stick- I've got 2 options $20, or $90. Um, Hello, where is the happy medium???? She got the cheap stick, and she will like it!
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My husband, Tool Time, finally replaced the light over the staircase. No more tripping over sleeping dogs for me!! Thanks, honey, for your timely response to that request!
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Hats off to the Frugalistas I Follow

2010-02-08T18:20:00.000-08:00

I think it was in July that I saw a spot on the news about a fruglista who teaches the not so frugal how to save a buck or two. Long boring story short, I found her website, and have now become a frugalista myself. I get big thrills out of "click here" and off we go to a page offering $1 off of whatever product it is.

Anywho-now that I'm getting all bloggy and stuff, I figured I better learn how to do the "click here" thing for myself. Hhhmmmm, lets see if it works. To meet my favorite frugalista, click here

Cue the Jeopardy theme.....

Did it work? Did I do it?

So I have a newfound appreciation for the many who take the time to find these coupons, and then take more time to go the painstaking process of posting the links. I cannot begin to imagine the time that goes into those websites, and I take my hat off to these girls for doing it. YOU ROCK, FRUGALISTAS!

Okay-I gotta post this now so I can see if the linky thingy really works....
More jeopardy music.....

I sink so low on Thursday nights.

2010-02-04T17:30:00.000-08:00

Seriously. I have been glued to the television every Thursday night since Grey's Anatomy came on. I worked in hospitals for years-why was is not as McDreamy/McSteamy as Seattle Grace???

"Housewife say what?" Oh,ladies of the OC, I just can't get enough. The funny thing is that when I start talking about the show, more and more women come crawling out of the woodwork to join the conversation. And they are the last ones I'd expect to watch. Who knew??

DVR is set and ready-I'll be watching again and again while I iron!!

For My Girls

2010-02-03T18:54:00.000-08:00

This one is for all girlfriends. It came to me today, and just struck a (good) nerve. A few moments later, I had a great chat with one of the GymGirls. Sometimes it is soooo nice to know that we are not alone in being imperfect.

A Poem About Our Girlfriends

Someone will always be prettier.
Someone will always be smarter.
Some of their houses will be bigger.
Some will drive a better car.
Their children will do better in school.
And their husband will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it!
The richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes~she might be lonely.
So, love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say,
"I am too blessed to be Stressed and too Annointed to be Dissappointed!"
"Winners make things happen~~Losers let things happen."
Be Blessed ladies, and pass this on to another woman.
"To the world you might be one person, to me you are special."